I just spent 3 hours looking for this web site. Shame on me for not bookmarking it, or posting this when I found it in September. IT IS GREAT.
Check it out: 3BlueDudes.
It's basically a summary of all the news sites' analysis of the electoral college. The page is very helpful to get a sense of where things stand in the Electoral College.
As of today - the average shows Obama at 313 and McCain at 166 and 59 electoral votes in toss up.